Traditional wedding vows need an addendum.   It should go something like this:  I promise before God and these witnesses to be your loving and faithful wife; in plenty and in want; in joy and in sorrow; in sickness and in health; as long as we both shall live.  I will also stand by your side as you make a mockery of our love, embarrass our family, risk our future in the process of your present and past behavior comes to light thus becoming national news as you serve in public office and/or make a bid for the presidency.

If the roles were reverse men would be nowhere to be found.  Men, I beseech you to say otherwise.  Bring it!

Men, you have a sanctum of directionals of how to escape anything that does not stroke you the “right way” and backups at your disposal.   Stand?   I don’t think so. Run is more like it.

Gloria Cain, Silda Spitzer, Elizabeth Edwards and Hilary Clinton have stood by their men.   If their husbands had to spend a day in their wife’s shoes they would undeniably fail.  These accomplished and regal women possess smiles so large camouflaging any cracks of pain.

Women are simply conditioned to take shit.  It starts all so very early.  In elementary school at the sandbox when the boy pushes the girl down that is somehow construed to mean he likes her.  That contorted thinking of hurt and love goes hand-in-hand plays throughout a lifetime.

Some women would NOT be so gracious.  There would be a call to 911.   Upon police arrival, surrender would ensue while confessing a crime.  Do you see the picture?

Poet extraordinaire Nate Taylor, otherwise known as, “THA GIFT” wrote an incredibly beautiful poem, called “Essence of Woman”.    Men, take heed to these words:

Women are complicated creatures, a species defined by how loving kind, and strong minded they are and even that by far doesn’t describe the nature of these “beautiful avatars,” these misunderstood “shining stars” that we men treat bizarre.
As we discover that the essence of Venus is a long distance from the creation of Mars. ~Melissa Michaels