This is our first post of Dear Hottie and I think you will all enjoy this. This is our version of Dear Abby, but the girl we have answering your questions is a true hottie (anyone know what Dear Abby looks like?). I met this hottie a few weeks back at lunch and starting talking about the site and featuring her as a hottie. She didn’t want to be featured but wanted to be a contributor in this manner. Not only is this girl hot, but she also is a real spark plug. Full of energy and has the perfect attitude. She tells it like is and if you don’t like what she has to say then don’t ask for her opinion. Her first entry is from a friend of hers telling her a story and asking for her opinion. If you have something you want to ask her the send her an email and she will respond to your questions. Again, don’t be pissed if she tells you something you don’t want to hear. I will also be adding my two cents to all the questions so you will be getting a guys perspective and a womans. Send your questions and comments to Info@RollinSD.com ~ Iceberg
Dear Hottie Hear,
Last year my boyfriend of 4 years and I decided to take the “next step” in our relationship, and moved in together. The first 3 months were amazing! We became closer than ever, and even bought a puppy! Just when I thought I couldn’t be happier, things took a 180 degree turn for the worst!! His laziness has resulted in him gaining almost 30 lbs., and while I don’t consider myself to be a superficial person, I can’t bring myself to stomach trying to have sex with him at this point! I have always taken care of myself, and made sure to maintain my tight little figure for not only myself, but for him as well, and can’t understand why he wouldn’t do the same! Over this past weekend my disgust climaxed to a point I never thought it could reach…at least not with him! I was at a birthday party (he didn’t go because he wanted to stay home and play video games) when I get a call from him….of course my first thought was he changed his mind and wanted the address to come meet me at the party…boy was I wrong! he had called to tell me OUR puppy needed to go outside, and wanted to know when I would be home to take him out! I was floored at his disgusting level of sloth like uselessness, and hung up on him! Ashamed to admit it, I did end up cutting my evening short and going home because it isn’t fair to the dog! I am trying my hardest not to give up on this relationship, but it gets harder and harder every day! I am not sure what I should do, I have tried talking to him about it and so far he has made no effort to change!
Sue Sick of Fat Ass BF!!!
You are a better woman than I, Sue Sick. If my boyfriend called me to tell me to come home and take the dog out when he is sitting right next to it doing nothing, I would tell him to let the dog shit on the floor, where he will be sleeping from now on, if he is lucky enough to still be living there! As for the weight gain and sloth like behavior…..just thank your lucky stars you found out what kind of man he is or should I say isn’t before you made a real mistake, like marrying him! Ask yourself this, “if
you let yourself get fat and disgusting (inside & out) like he has….would he even hesitate to stick his hand in someone else’s cookie jar? My suggestion….your hot, your young, instead of cutting your nights short… cut the excess weight from your life and move on! I hope this helps, even if it isn’t what you wanted to hear!
Iceberg here. I will not always agree with Hottie, but in this case I do. I have been married and now divorced. People always think they can change other people and you just can’t. OK, you can refine them a bit, but you can’t change them. If he is doing this now, it will only get worse. You going home and helping out is only allowing your fat ass boy friend to continue to behave the way he is. Either toughen up and tell him to deal with it on his own and you will be home when you come home, or cut your losses short now and move out. If you keep giving in to him he will continue to behave the way he is and you are screwed. So, move out now and don’t even think about staying with this clown. If you are stupid enough to marry him, you will end up divorced and I will forward you this post once a week for the rest of your life. So with that said move out and need when you need a booty call look me up girl. ~Iceberg